Tobii's blog

By Tobii, history, 5 weeks ago, In English

I had re-written this blog way too many times.

I wanted to share personal things related to me but every time i read what i had written i feel that it's just meaning less and no one would ever care.

In-short i am thinking about committing suicide because i can't handle my family stress and life as well any more.

i don't care about anything in my life. i don't care about money, friends, family or being a good coder or anything.

and why i didn't google that but instead blogged it here, since i am dedicating much of my time on this website just felt that i would rather do it here since i have no-where else to share things with the others.

if anyone had the same problem as me kindly advice me.

if you didn't ever face such stress that would make you think about suiciding without hesitation please take care of what you are going to say.

 
 
 
 
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Bruh!

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make a friendship with the self-help books.

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    evidence that no one should seek advice from random people over internet

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Suicide gives you nothing. Just leave that.. Can i know Your age?

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    think that you are doing a very hard job... that every single day yu are just toiling to handle it. even thinking of getting rid of this job is joyful! so now I guess you would understand how much your comment helped him/her.

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      I guess you would understand how much your reply helped him/her.

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I couldn't figure out your nationality but by any chance if you are Indian,

Call This
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Brother, please see to the fact that you are not born to die, you are born to live, you are born to win, you are born to do your favorite things.

Many people get frustrated by their lives because it's too tough. It may be tougher for you but it's my sincere advice to you that you stay strong brother.

Remember these quotes https://www.success.com/17-motivational-quotes-to-inspire-you-to-be-successful/

Don't take that as some other nonsense blog, these quotes are the people who themselves have faced a lot of difficulties.

Be grateful for what you have and try to gain things that you want but if you don't succeed then don't dwell on failure thoughts, it makes you weak, therefore stand up and try again, stand up and try again like an Ant.

Watch the motivational speech by Arnold Schwarzenneger.

Life is not easy and that makes it more joyful. I remember one very famous quote "Think that your life was perfect from every angle, then what would it have looked".

Failures and Success go hand in hand, stress and joy go hand in hand, impurity and purity goes together.

Last thing, stay with your family ... go have a walk in nature, drink plety of water, eat your favorite dish, watch good comedy movies and motivational speeches, get back on track and live to the best.

If ever you feel low just remind yourself one thing that you are born to live, you are born to win...

Regards,

Teja348

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    Did I said something wrong in above comment. then please do correct me. In above comment I would also like to add that if it doesn't work foryou then you must seek help from medical professional...

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      William Lin > Arnold Schwarzenneger

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      yes, you and I forgot to add some dumb meme.

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      common... is it really going to help him? you know you are just saying something that may be logically correct, but not helpful and suitable for here!

      plz... just try to underastand their feelings a bit!

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I would just say, please don't commit suicide. Your life is very precious to your parents, your community and your country. There is no good in committing suicide.

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your life is not yours to take, many under privileged people lived an unfulfilling life and died. Why do you want to do it, are you doing it because you are not motivated enough. Find some motivation then , care about your family, it will give enough reasons to live.

Remember, it is all a mental state, which can be changed if you look into it, if you do something about it, just change your current mental state.

Motivation is an emotion, make it stronger, listen to motivational songs, fix targets , improve yourself day by day, dont compare urself to others, that's an INSULT to your uniqueness, watch ANIMEs and set a goal and work towards it.

EDIT — I dont care , I am just a worthless non — grandmaster , my opinions are shit and I dont know which meme is best in this case.

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    A blog about suicide is getting so many upvotes but a genuine help tip is treated worthless, I guess people on CF care only about memes.

    EDIT — Edited my comment.

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      most upvoted replies are not memes. don't be a butthurt.

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      "Remember, it is all a mental state, which can be changed if you look into it, if you do something about it, just change your current mental state."

      You make it sound as if changing one's mental state is as easy as looking into it, as though it can be done with sheer willpower, and are implying that OP current state is his own fault.

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        Yeah, I am just trying to give him a positive outlook. Later I have also added how we can try to change the mental state.

        I don't know his conditions but unlike others who are giving tips like just be happy or seek professional help (both being obvious), I am trying to state the minimal correct fact/solution in a different perspective.

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        Also it would be better instead of finding mistakes in my comment and showing that you genuinely not care, try to actually post something helpful for once.

        NOT ONLY TO YOU, BUT TO EVERYONE READING THIS BLOG I WANT TO REMIND THAT THIS IS NOT SOME UPVOTE/DOWNVOTE GAME BUT A SERIOUS CONDITION AND THE LEAST WE CAN DO IS TELL HIM ABOUT DIFFERENT PERSPECTIVES (since that's what he asked for) SO THAT HE CAN GET SOME REASONS TO ACTUALLY CHANGE HIS MINDSET FOR THE BETTER.

        THANKS

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    even if you are saying right, the way that you are saying is making it seem just like hundreds of comments which have actually nothing to say but just to mention how much it is important to be alive or that we are here to live ... plzzzz stop it! just think a bit... he/she considered to commit suicide! how can it be useful to tell him/her it is not only their life! think about it a bit more logically plz

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      Hi,

      I get your point, but I want my words to reach out to him and give him a different perspective that one shouldn't take our life that lightly , each of us is unique and its normal to feel depressed, you just need to change your mindset and things might get back on track.

      Also I am not against any other comment as I mentioned, infact I encourage people to give him tips , so that he can look at life from others perspective. Of course every comment helping him is correct, but comments stating that "other comments are wrong, my comment is correct" — is wrong in this case (as done by some people below).

      Moreover, he is asking for help, I am trying to help, where's the problem, I will not reply further because I have nothing to prove.

      Thanks

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        this way I would like to appreciate your great feelings about other humans :) I was just so sad coz I though you are one of those "dont care about anything and really cant understand the problem" people...

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Go out in the nature. Excercise/Meditate. Watch Movies. Play Games. Make a schedule. Get busy with life. Things will get better after the epidemic.

I find this helpful: https://youtu.be/A4pR--qJTdU

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you are better then this Morty !!

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It's much easier to give up on anything.

Just think about what you have and you're willing to give up on it so easily like it's nothing, think about those who don't even have all these things which you have, those who see you and seek what you have but they can't.

Every one has issues a lot more than you can even imagine but suicide is not the solution bro.

Cherish what you have, enjoy those things, don't let it slip away so easily.

You're much more precious than you can imagine.

Re-build yourself don't destroy yourself.

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Why your submission history is empty ?. Why you have not played any contest ? And your are saying that you have dedicated a lot of time on this website but you have only registered 7 weeks before. It clearly means this is not your genuine account and you created for posting this. And please stop doing this things, codeforces blogs are meant for discussing problems and ideas, don't put such things.

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    What the fuck is wrong with you bro! Probably he doesn't want to disclose his original name or account and there could be many reasons for the same. You could have simply chosen to ignore the post, still you chose to spread the toxicity. You should seriously check yourself bro.

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    You do know that your very comment contradicts what you are saying ...

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Hey man, I hope you do make the choice to continue to live. Life is seriously too short not to live. My best advice for you is try to distract yourself from these thoughts. As time goes on, you may be better at distracting yourself from these thoughts and hopefully, find a goal that you plan to achieve. When you find a goal, distracting yourself from thoughts like this will be even easier. It may take a while, but you will get there.

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Brother please, instead of posting or taking advice from here, contact a psychiatrist! He may really help you on the other hand random advice from internet may be really harmful :(

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don't do that, there are always some peoples in life who do really care. even if not, live for yourself and be a winner...

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This is an educational site. You should consult a psychiatrist. Talk to friends, family. We cannot help in any way.

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I don't know you and the problems you are facing in your life...but I know this for sure, that giving your life is not the solution...the problems will just get worse for your family when you won't be around... think about your family and friends...I am not very good at giving advice...but you should definitely talk to someone close to you or someone you feel comfortable with...asking for advice on internet won't help you much...

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Hey man, don't lose hope, u r important, u r worthy, suicide is not an option, it gives pain to your close persons like family (especially parents), and friends. Your mother carries u 9 months not see u in this situation, be a man, some days are worst it doesn't mean whole life is bad.

Please take care of yourself, eat healthy get some fresh air. Still, u thinking of suicide please see the face of your mother.

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As someone who goes through kinda similar phases, I wont try to convince you to live, since you are already over that discussion. I can relate to that feeling when it seems like nothing matters and there is no point in life. But there is a thought I can share with you that keeps me going in such times,

You will most definitely die at some point. Whether there will be an afterlife or you will just cease to exist doesnt matter. You will get that relief and experience of death at some point no matter what. So why not try to live more of life? Its almost like a cf question, there is no reason to die earlier. If you ever feel your suffering is unbearable, you always have the option to die. But not vice-versa. And trust me, you will thank yourself for waiting a bit longer because life has a way of equalising things. You will almost surely go on to live a unique life with unique experiences no matter what you decide to do. Just hang in there for a while.

And some additional tips that help me: Hormones are a reality for us. Most of what you feel is due to lack of good hormones — dopamine, serotonin etc. All you have to do is something that gives an initial spurt and you will suddenly start to see the meaning in things. Its amazing how things can change in a day. So, just try to break the negative feedback loop you are in. Go for a morning run, experience nature, your body releases serotonin from that. Take care of yourself, basic hygiene etc. Try to pursue a new hobby, I started meditating and its awesome especially for people like us that face internal problems. And if you still feel that things aren't getting better, then please give yourself a chance and get medical help. There are pills to fix hormonal balances that will make you feel better. Just try these things at least before doing anything. And remember, you can die only once, so think really hard before doing anything.

Try to consult with a mental health professional. This is a mental health problem that you are going through. Your body is not releasing the hormones that make you feel good and give meaning to life. This is treatable. Just make that initial effort to reach out to someone you trust. It will be the best decision you ever took, trust me.

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See everyone faces difficult situations in their life.It sometimes feels to give up on everything and to just let go but true warriors never leave their work inspite of alot of adversities.Even codeforces teaches us not to give up and to give our best shot.Even if we dont succeed we end up being a better version of ourselves.So forget all this and start believing in urself and being optimistic!!!

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stay safe there dude

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Life is very important ... if anything gives you pain avoid that .....patience is main ....if you feel trouble then take time....spending time your friends this is good option don't keep alone with yourself ....Man can do anything just believe yourself you can do anything in your life .....it keeps time but you can do it.....you are not alone in the world everybody gets hurt but it is just for a specific moment ...suicide is not a proper solution for anything .....

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The amount of self-proclaimed psychologists and psychiatrists writing "Just be happy" in the comments is sickening.

If it really is that severe, seek professional help. We're a bunch of strangers on the Internet, we can only do very little.

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    majk I didn't act as a medical professional because I am not one.

    I just said one line to him that you are born to live, you are born to win. To give him some hope because where there is hope there is always a way to get ahead.

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      Imagine someone says you they have cancer and you say "you are born to live and born to win". Maybe then you'll realise how idiotic is what you said.

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        Isn't it idiotic to say that giving motivation and hope to live is worthless.

        And if you are talking about cancer so you should remember that medical treatment needs hope of the person from inside. The motivation to fight. But you won't understand.

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          Ok, if you genuinely believe "You're born to live, not to die" can give motivation to someone with suicidal thoughts, then more accurate comparison would be sth like "someone tells you they have cancer and you say: just ingest lots of vitamine C and you'll recover". People with suicidal thoughts when they hear sth like this are much more likely to think: "Oh, if it's really so simple for others to just stay positive, but it doesn't work with me then there's something wrong with me, it's my fault that I feel what I feel" which can only make their mental condition worse.

          https://psychcentral.com/lib/worst-things-to-say-to-someone-whos-depressed/ https://www.psycom.net/depression.central.6.things.never.say.html

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            Okay, I agree to your point but as a noob, I tried the best to help.

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          You are born to live

          As if the suicidal person didn't know that ...

          There is a reason for which he is trying to kill himself , focusing on removing the reason would be a better approach

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Hang in there. Things will get better

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Bro believe in God. The Tide will definitely turn. Remember a Diamond gets made by passing through excessive heat and pressure. Your problems will make you a diamond and life would give you the best.please watch movie Peaceful warrior and please chant WAHEGURU 100 times and whenever you are in trouble.

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I can relate you. I am in that same situation . But I have managed me somewhat . At least I have realized that in this world everyone faces problems. It is just me who is suggesting me to suicide . Wherever you will say that you are feeling like giving up, believe me only a few will care and say that "we are with you , you can stand back,we will help." You know what , most people will say , "you have to find your solution,you are alone, you have to make it working"

But there are some break points of a person . A depressed soul needs support , a direction . Everyone else puts more pressure just and judge .

I would like to really help you to feel better. We are same!

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If competitive programming's not enough being a cure, than not much of things can.

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Its not worth it...why ? Everyone faces there low point ...writing blog wouldn't be much helpful ... just try to dream ...u know ..may be after some months or years u will end up with ur "family stress and life problems" and if u keep trying u may even get what u want and at that moment u will see how foolish it would have been of u committing suicide. And the thing is u have just lost the hope of even wanting something from ur life. Saying "i don't care about anything in my life. " is the easiest thing to say and that's why u are saying so. Just keep thinking of all u want to change in ur life and how fun that moment will be when u are done handling all ur issues.

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Kinda same feeling, I don't care of anything either, but suicide is not that easy.

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i was in the same situation that you are. Trust me it gets easier don't take decisions hastly think about yourself,only. Do what you like the most , do what gives you a kick , Do what makes you happy.

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You are going to die anyway after 30 yrs or 40 or 50 so commiting suicide doesn't make any sense so don't focus on death focus of life..and if you dont care about anything so that is your biggest advantage you can start from fresh beacause at the end you will die no body is immortal if you commit suicide you won't be able to experience life..choice is yours

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Try to practice meditation ..here is a link to a guided meditation by Thich Nhat Hanh https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=1viNYM7WPAg&t=857s

Control your mind and emotions with daily practice of mindfullness/meditation...By doing meditation such harmful thoughts will go away and your mind will automatically be filled with positive thoughts...this is scientifically proven also.try it!

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text me i ll give u my number we can chat if u get someone to say things out loud to it helps rather than thinking over and over in your mind

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    Did you message him? he has not replied to any of the comments... I think he has logged out of this acc

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Suicide is the most worth thing that you can do in your life. And why you think no one cares? It's depressing when you hear about suicide of some person, even unknown, and you will hurt very much your parents, family, friends. You should go to proffesional and NEVER commit about suicide anymore.

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    exactly...i know how it feels . As far as I know you think that people look down on you and think that you are worthless . I know that's not true . All you have to do is keep up your will and work hard until you prove them wrong . Do you really wanna die letting them win . Frankly speaking I am alive to kick my bullies' ass . Now If you really die like a hero....prove them wrong . Now get up and code it all out . Hope it helps !!

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i don't care about anything in my life

since i am dedicating much of my time on this website

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Well if none of the other comments talks you out of your situation,lemme try...After you die you will be reborn again just to learn and do all the things you already know now starting from scratch, seriously do you want that or just try to get better now at solving problems on CF and life in general?

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    Why is there even a pressure over not committing suicide. How more toxic could it get?

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      is it toxic to live, please tell

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        Living is not usually toxic, but it can get toxic. Some hypothetical situations:

        1. Someone is suffering too much pain for long time from some terminal disease and all doctors gave up on his recovery. Yes, nothing is 100% sure, but is that tiny probability worth it to tolerate so much pain?

        2. Someone is on the roof of a tall building and that roof is on fire and the fire is proceeding towards him — he has only 2 options: die by burning (everyone has to die today or tomorrow, probably by suffering more pain than self-chosen easier death of suicide) or die by committing suicide by jumping from the building. Which one is better do you think?

        3. If connection between your brain and hand is cut off, you won't feel any pain (AFAIK) even if your hand is cut off. What if your brain continuously releases feeling of pain without any cause? How long will you be able to tolerate? Wouldn't it get 'toxic' to live?

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          But the OP is most probably in not those situations you mentioned, so if someone tells that saying him to not commit suicide is toxic, then I have a different view for them.

          Your points depend on the person's thought process.

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          Number two actually happened in Brazil. It is terryfing to see those people jumping from the roof in order to don't die from burning. :-(

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Seek profession help from a psychiatrist asap. Prefer not to listen to certain comments, and knock this condition off, they/even me have no idea how this is, and how out of control it could get immediately. GOOD LUCK, TAKE CARE!

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You are not defeated completely until you kill yourself..I dont know what you are going through but whatever it is its from the almighty and he is testing you..Keep patience bro..Good day will come..There is always some reason to live for..I know it will appear in your life one day

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Suicide_was_never_an_option.png

Bro don't over look other options for this shitty idea to commit suicide, I am sure there is way out.

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Hello, this problem is actually well-known in China, I'll write a detailed blog about it soon.

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    This problem is well known in a place called Kota(India) as well. Institute called Allen well known

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Don't let anyone stop you from achieving your dreams! Want some juice ?

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sr but it looks like a cursed image
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so if you just cant handle your life you can leave it easily... you may feel that it would make you feel better... but the way that youre gonna leave it is important... since committing suicide will have really bad effect on your family and anyone who cares about your life, you can just leave this life ... go as far as you can .. go where ever you think you can start a new life ... find new friends and new job ... this would again bother your relatives but at least would help you to feel alright again ...

note that Im not saying this very bothering things like: "you musnt do this..." or "why should some one kill himself?"... no! I think you "should" leave it but not by committing suicide.. or maybe we can just change the meaning of "suicide" ... lets define it as "leaving the way your living!"

hope you read it ... since Ive written a lot

and just for your knowledge: youre life is important ... at least for me .. coz I clearly know how do you feel and Ive already passed this all... and now youre just like my very nice friend...

this is all I can do now ... if you wanted to talk to someone Ill be glad to be that one :)

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Whenever I feel down, I usually listen to Avicii music.

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the account last visit was 24 hours ago "(. RIP

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bro sometimes life gets the better of u but its alright . think about your parents, if u continue to fight you still have hope maybe u improve by 0.001% but still its important not to lose but to keep fighting till end . life will kick u everyday bro i understand but hey what to lose when u have nothing to lose and live life beautifully . dm me if u need more help

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I would just advise you one thing, Go and READ Bhagwad Gita, that's a solution to all your problems.

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Just think about how many problems you haven't solved yet. Think that you can become Red Coder

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5 weeks ago, # |
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No need to comment , this guy died already ....May his soul rest in peace ...............

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Bro, where ever the hell u are pls donot commit suicide..... Have some hope in ur life. Its ok, everything will be all right. Hope is only way forward. Meet your close associates.

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Not all families are well functioning. This is the truth. If you don't have a good one, that's not your fault. You were born here, but, if you give up on life because of them, it is your fault. Leave them. Go away. Live alone if that's what it takes (read on for a story of my friend). Leave your house and go to another place. Don't let them contact you. People will help you do that too. If they report you as missing in the police, let the police know that you don't want to return because of your reasons.

(A friend of mine doesn't have a good family. He also had suicidal thoughts because of all the clashes and fights in the house. He left his house with his sister. They didn't deserve that shit. They're living away and happily now)

Your life is never a problem. It is a wonderful gift. Just remove the part that you don't like.

It's okay to be upset. It's okay to be down. It's okay to not have a good family even if all your friends do. It's okay to LEAVE. Get what you deserve.

Suicide is not a solution. It is an escape.

You are a fighter. You can win this.

All of us at codeforces believe in you. You can do this.

Looking forward to seeing your comments back here.

Cheers!

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Trust Jesus! He will help you! Pray to Him! He helped me too

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Unfortunately many of us feel that way sometimes and it's okay to try talking about it (even with people you don't know).

But the truth is that you feel that way because your brain is not doing its job and is not producing the correct substances to make you want to live... And it is not right that you decide to die just because an organ of your body is a little damaged.

Please see a doctor. Give a professional a chance to try to help you before you make a decision that you can't back down.

I promise you that seeing a doctor and taking your medications regularly can make a big difference in how you see life.

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You are a fighter man. I promise you that life has great things for you in store if you can stay strong during this phase. Can you do it for us?

Also, don't listen to people who just know how to be mean behind a mask. They are not brave enough to say that in real life.

Lastly, you should see a therapist. Those are the people I would trust more than anyone else.

Hang in there man. You got this.

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Hi Tobii...

I saw your post about suicide.

I am very sorry about what you're going through. I wish I could say more but there's one thing my mentor once said about suicide that stuck with me:

You can always postpone it to tomorrow....

I do hope you pull through and find life worth living.

By the way, If you're Nigerian, please hmu. I may have something to make you feel better.

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My two cents- try visiting 7Cups. It is an online free anonymous counseling forum.

Related codeforces blog: give this a try if you're feeling down

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I had a friend who got really depressed because he failed two times the entrance exam of a university. After some weeks, he decided to try to get back to his normal life. Still kinda sad, he then got a week out from his part time job and chilled out. It was a very wise choice. He got really better and more confident. He studied a lot and passed the entrance exam. Try to chill out a bit, relax, play sports, discover a new hobby, there is a hole world for you to discover! Your live matters. As all lives matter.

AllLivesMatter

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Please, immediately consult a psychiatrist, without wasting time. This is the best advice at this moment.

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May the Almighy Allah bless you and take away all you pain. Amen.

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It is just a phase. It will pass, believe me. 1. Just remember, we are most critical towards ourselves. Like, if we don't perform well in one contest, we start doubting ourselves. And this becomes more severe if we continue performing badly in the successive contests. But, being critical is also important but only to some extent. 2. Remember success is when we enjoy the journey rather than reaching the destination. It is the journey where you try to compete with your past to become better and that gives you an objective to endeavor your best. 3. Suicide is not at all a solution to a problem, it itself a problem. Being a programmer, you must try to solve this too. By committing suicide you are just adding more problems to your loved ones. 4. Try taking a break from programming, try to explore yourself. Maybe, you can spend some time in exercising, reading books, or anything that helps you to learn and makes you a better person. 5. About the family pressure, every family wants that their child should become successful but if you think that there is too much pressure, just talk to them about your feelings. I don't think that they would abstain from listening to your grieve. They would love more if you are alive rather dead. 6. Remember we all get just one life, maybe what we dream to become wouldn't be possible but that doesn't mean that we are not at all good. 7. Check out this video, this is inspirational Link

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Suicide is not a solution of anything. If you are from India then call me i will try my best to help you. +91 9726247049

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I have a friend which have the same issue...but now every thing is fine with him....he find out the problems in his family and try to solve them...you should also try this way and i am 100% sure that things will improve with time do one thing """never discuss any topic which will increase the family stress and if someone do..stop him""" and this will definitely reduce your family stress. :)

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I think you should go on with your decision of commiting suicide. That's the best solution of freeing all your problems. But just remember that there's nothing like afterlife or whatever shit so as soon as you die you will be just a dead piece and nothing else :) and worthless. If that's fine with you then bye bye .

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Hello Tobii, While I don't know what it's like to want to commit suicide without hesitation, I've been in horrible and depressing situations before- ones that made me question the point of my existence. I don't think you should commit suicide. I don't know if whatever makes you feel this way will subside soon, but I can promise you that it will one day. Like a light at the end of a tunnel, or a sunrise peeking out of the cold mountains, it will make you feel better. Live for nothing else but the hope that living can have hope. Please. Please don't kill yourself. Not yet. I'm sorry I can't give you any more hope, because I can't — no one can- understand the stress you're going through. But that means you can at least try- seek out some professional help if you can. It will help more than you can imagine. I can't say it enough. Please, please don't kill yourself